Permission to Embrace a New Facet of You

Permission to Embrace a New Facet of You

I have always loved Halloween and the excuse to dress up in a costume. This photo is from a party earlier this month with the theme of Glam Rock. This idea of dressing in costume and trying on a new character is related to my work in the intimacy and relationship field in multiple ways. The most obvious is role-playing…

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20 Happenings: A Powerful Way to Do Year-End Reflections

20 Happenings: A Powerful Way to Do Year-End Reflections

As we approach the end of the year, it's valuable to take a moment to reflect on our achievements and the things that brought us joy. Many people don't take the time to appreciate their successes or savor their joyful moments because they're too focused on their next task or goal, or because they're caught up in their worries. But regularly feeling gratitude…

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Has Netflix Become Sexflix? I talk to London's Sunday Times about this...

Has Netflix Become Sexflix? I talk to London's Sunday Times about this...

I’ve spent more than enough time watching Netflix during the pandemic, and the steamy scenes have been building over the past couple of years. As a sociologist who studies sexual trends in society, I was delighted to speak to Rosamund Urwin at the Sunday Times in London about this Netflix phenomenon….

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12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

I love the holidays. And I love sexual humor. I also love being silly. This parody merges all 3 of those! It is my lyrics for the 12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas — you know, what the “true love” of the 12 Days of Christmas might give to a sexologist like me. ;)

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Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Oh, I had a lot of fun writing the lyrics to Old MacDonald Had a Sexy Farm and rehearsing it the past few months! And as you’ll see, I had trouble not laughing while I recorded this! If Old MacDonald had a sexy, sex-positive (and maybe even kinky) farm, what kinds of things might he have on his farm?!

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