What are the signs that your partner might be cheating on you?

I was interviewed as part of an expert roundup, about the signs that your partner might be cheating on you. This is my two cents on the topic:

“If you notice changes in the following four categories of behavior then you might have a cheater on your hands.

First, if they start taking care of their body and appearance more than usual. Going to the gym or working out in the garage, a new haircut or style, new clothes…while these can all be indicators that they are prioritizing self-care, if these come out of the blue it could be problematic.

Second, if they are coming home later or are spending way less time than usual with you. They most likely have a very good excuse like work deadlines or taking on extra shifts.

And on its own that is not anything to worry about…but when combined with the other factors on this list, it could be helpful to gentle ask details about this extra work.

Third, if they usually want sex with you and stop wanting it or seeking it out.

And fourth, if they are more secretive with their phone screen or the visibility of their laptop, and get edgy if you get too close.

Hopefully, you never experience being cheated on, but if you repeatedly notice all of these behavioral changes, it’s time for a conversation!”

If you’d like to read the advice from other experts (80 other ones!), check out the full post here: How to Spot a Cheating Partner.

~Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, San Diego Sexologist, Intimacy Speaker, & Sociologist