Has Netflix Become Sexflix? I talk to London's Sunday Times about this...

Has Netflix Become Sexflix? I talk to London's Sunday Times about this...

I’ve spent more than enough time watching Netflix during the pandemic, and the steamy scenes have been building over the past couple of years. As a sociologist who studies sexual trends in society, I was delighted to speak to Rosamund Urwin at the Sunday Times in London about this Netflix phenomenon….

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Did You Do Your Emotional Workout Today?

Did You Do Your Emotional Workout Today?

When I was recently working with a client couple I asked about their ongoing “homework” of sharing “daily gratitudes” with each other. I had suggested this as homework for the past eight months because it quickly became apparent that they were more connected and harmonious when they committed to this brief but intentional activity every day…

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How to "Surrender" in Intimacy - The Potential to Powerhouse Podcast

How to "Surrender" in Intimacy - The Potential to Powerhouse Podcast

Surrender is such a scary AND juicy word. Because it means being vulnerable and not being in control. But it also means allowing yourself the opportunity to truly release and connect with a sexual partner. This is one of the topics I discussed on episode #34 of the Potential to Powerhouse podcast.

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Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Is There Any Place for Men’s Sexual Energy in the Workplace (Like Andrew Cuomo’s)?

Whoa, this just got uncomfortable, I thought to myself. I was standing and speaking to a group of powerful, primarily white, male business owners, and I had just suggested that they should be responsible and turn off their sexual energy in the workplace. And from their uncomfortable murmurs…

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A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

Last week I received an email from someone I don’t know. It read: Hello, I have for a long long time loved to watch a Female Professional wear Closed Toe High Heel Pumps/Shoes while I Self Pleasure just looking at her but directly watching shoe play. I definitely prefer this over any other sex opportunity. I love asking to do this and would love to pay for a session…

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