Give Yourself a Hand …Being Vulnerable for National Masturbation Month

Give Yourself a Hand …Being Vulnerable for National Masturbation Month

May is National Masturbation Month! However, back in March, I had the opportunity to deliver a talk on masturbation at San Diego State University. The event was organized by the Student for Public Health club and was open to any student interested, although we had to limit attendance to 100 students because we had 100 free vibrators to distribute to the attendees!

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What is “stealthing” and why is it now illegal in CA?

What is “stealthing” and why is it now illegal in CA?

Imagine this: You’re hooking up with a guy who you kind of like and are definitely attracted to. It seems like you’re headed towards sexual intercourse – which you want -- so you ask if he has a condom. He pulls one from his drawer, and although it’s dim in the room, you see him roll it down his penis….

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Did You Do Your Emotional Workout Today?

Did You Do Your Emotional Workout Today?

When I was recently working with a client couple I asked about their ongoing “homework” of sharing “daily gratitudes” with each other. I had suggested this as homework for the past eight months because it quickly became apparent that they were more connected and harmonious when they committed to this brief but intentional activity every day…

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New sex talk podcast for happier relationships

New sex talk podcast for happier relationships

I’ve never had such personal and open public conversations about sex, pleasure, body-image, shame, communication, and funny stories from the past, than on Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc. And we just released Episode #10 called Play Parties, Getting Personal with Dr. Jenn, and Clint’s Crazy Ex…

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Actually, consent is complicated

Actually, consent is complicated

“I’m going to kiss you now,” Tom says as he moves in to embrace the flustered Amber, a fellow first year student at Princeton University. This is one of the opening lines in Actually, a two-person play by Anna Ziegler at the San Diego Repertory Theatre.

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