What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What do most people say or do after sex? Is it sexy, or completely the opposite? Many times it’s really unsexy, and could lead to a strong disconnection. There's a funny hashtag on Twitter, #ThingsISayAfterSex, which offers some good examples of the unsexy things that people say ("Where's the remote?").

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Love Better in 2017

Love Better in 2017

We all want love -- more love, better love. But I think we often only think about bringing more love into our lives when it comes to a romantic relationship. In this segment on San Diego Living, I discuss the bigger picture around love...

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Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sigh, yes, it's that time of year again when almost anything you can think of is turned into a "sexy" version for the sale of Halloween costumes. Sexy Donald Trump? Sexy Hillary? Sexy Ronald McDonald, Ebola nurse, Smiling Pile of Poo! (I'm serious.) I discussed Sexy Halloween Costumes on San Diego Living....

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Better Hotter Sex...a bigger view on this topic

Better Hotter Sex...a bigger view on this topic

What do people usually think of, when they hear "hotter sex"? Adding new exciting things to their sex life, like new positions, lingerie, role playing, or anything that seems "crazy" and hot. But this approach isn't necessarily helpful or sustainable because it's only half the picture. I discuss this with Clint August on San Diego Living.

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What is Sexual Confidence really?

What is Sexual Confidence really?

You may think that sexual confidence means knowing everything, or being perfect. But sexual confidence is actually the opposite of that, because it means being open to messing up and trying new things....I discussed this with Client August on San Diego Living recently, and shared some ideas of what to do and what not to do.

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Going Green in Your Love Life: Eco-Friendly Intimacy & Romance

Going Green in Your Love Life: Eco-Friendly Intimacy & Romance

If Earth Day inspired you to think outside the box with your commitment to reducing your carbon footprint and being environmental conscious, then I have some suggestions for how you can bring this to your romantic life! From gifts, to dates, and even lube, I was happy to discuss this with Clint August recently on San Diego Living. Unfortunately...

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